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<\/figure>\nComfort does not reinforce fear<\/h2>\n
Older leadership-theory literature often claims that by stroking a frightened dog you confirm that being afraid is right. Emotions do not work that simply. Calm closeness or the chance to move away does not make fear more attractive.<\/p>\n
But how we help matters. If you tense up yourself, start repeating \u201cit\u2019s all right\u201d in a high voice and hold the dog firmly in place, the situation can become even more intense. Help can be quiet: move back, sit side-on, let him hide, offer a familiar task or some food if he can take it.<\/p>\n
Not every dog wants to be touched at such a moment. One will press close, another will feel safer with more space. Watch what that particular dog\u2019s body language shows.<\/p>\n
Work below the fear threshold<\/h2>\n
If the dog can still sniff, eat, turn to look at you and move freely, the distance is probably right for learning. If he freezes, tries to escape, refuses normally valuable food or strains in panic, the task is too hard.<\/p>\n
The right distance often has to be judged not in metres but by what the dog can still do. One day he watches the vacuum cleaner from another room. The next he comes a few steps closer. If the machine moved and the dog fled, next time we go back to an easier version.<\/p>\n
Progress is not a straight line. Fear is affected by tiredness, by earlier events that day, and even by the weather or how a place echoes.<\/p>\n
Desensitisation and a new association<\/h2>\n
Two processes often work together. The first is very gradual exposure at an intensity that does not yet trigger strong fear. The second is building a new, pleasant association.<\/p>\n
Suppose a dog is afraid of umbrellas. At first a folded umbrella lies far away \u2014 and food or a favourite activity appears. Later you pick it up but do not open it. Later still you move it slightly. Every step must be easy enough that the dog is not overwhelmed by strong emotion.<\/p>\n
Food is not a bribe for luring a dog too close. If he came for a treat and only realised he was trapped once he had eaten it, trust has not grown. It is better to deliver the reward where the dog feels safe, sometimes even throwing it further from the trigger and so rewarding the retreat.<\/p>\n
Why \u201che will get used to it\u201d can do harm<\/h2>\n
Keeping a dog near a frightening object for a long time is called flooding. Sometimes the dog stops struggling because he has genuinely got used to it. Sometimes because he realised he cannot escape.<\/p>\n
Silence is not reliable proof of safety. A frozen dog can be experiencing intense fear as well.<\/p>\n
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